Monday, July 21, 2008

Love Quotes from Joe D' Mango

  • True love only comes once in a lifetime, so take it as it comes along and enjoy every bit of it swhille it is still burning strong
  • This is the true measure of love: When we strongly believe that there is no one else who could give as much love to our partners, nobody from their past, present or future
  • When you loook into the eyes of your love, you see forever, you see warmth and safety, you see two hearts beating together for each other, for the rest of your lives
  • if you love someoone, show the persoon your love everyday and in every way, because all the wealth in the world could never bring that person back when lost
  • You may find peace in loving someone from a distance and not expecting anything in return. But be careful, for this can sustain life but can never give enough room for us to grow
  • In the middle of this world full of hurt and sorrow, there is one question that would make you think: If the world ended today, would you be at peace with the amount of love you shared?
  • Did it ever cross your mind that the greatest love a father can give to his children is to love their mother?
  • We have to remember to always mean what we say, because the words that come out of our lips mean nothing if they do not come from the hearrt
  • Letting go is not just setting the other person free, but it is also setting yourself from all the bitterness, hatred, and anger that you keep in your heart
  • To let go of someone doesn't mean that you have to stop loving. it only means that you allow that person to find his own happiness without expecting him to come back
  • The best lovers are those capable of loving from a distance; far enough to allow each one to grow but never too far to feel the love within each others being
  • Go for the person of deeds and not for the person of words, for you will find rewarding happiness not from the person you love but from the person who loves you more
  • Always keep in mind that trust takes years to build, but mere seconds to destroy. And then it takes you even longer to rebuild it
  • Love is like a road; either you travel it and marvel at the wonders it brings or you dont travel it and wonder what it would be like
  • When you realize you want to spend the rest of your life with someone, you want the rest of your life to start as soon as possible
  • Remember that the problems in your relationship are not give to you to destroy you, but to make you better persons and strengthen your bond of love
  • When our feelings get too strong for a person, it is always wise to stop for a while and give our hearts a time to breathe. Lets take the time to use our mind to weigh our situation based on reason and not on emotion
  • When travelling the path of life and finding love along the way, everything will look new and different. Little do you know it is the same old landscape you used to see all the time; love has just given you new eyes
  • Dont let your heart run your life, be sensible and consider what your mind tells you. Listen not only to your feelings, but to reason as well
  • To love is to understand each other, to laugh together, to smile with your heart and trust one another. If you cant do all of these, then you might want to consider if you really want to be with each other
  • Nothing could bring more contentment than seeing the love in your loved one's smile and knowing that smile is for you
  • Love does not just last by itself. it is our intention to make that love last that determines whether it is going to grow strong and last long
  • Breaking up is not always a bad thing. instead it makes you a better person, helps you realize your mistakes, and prepares you for your next relationship
  • Keep in mind that everything happens for a reason. The bad thiings in life open your eyes to the good things you werent paying attention to before
  • There may be loves found and lost, and your heart may break many times, but now, let the hope of love come and make you smile
  • Sometimes you would feel like you want to show that special someone why you love him/her right then and there but it actually takes a lifetime to prove your love to that person. Dont be discouraged. because thats the beauty of love and what makes it last
  • Dont be afraid to love with all your heart, because you never lose by loving. You always lose by holding back
  • People often ask me what the best way to love is. After considering everything that comes with love, I think it is safe to say that the best way to love is to love like a child: pure, innocent and without hesitiation
  • Dont be afraid to get your heart broken because one who has never experienced pain brought by love has never really learned how to love
  • If you have reasons for loving someone then you are using your mind. If you cant find the reasons why you love someone, then you are using your heart
  • Try to take away the feeling, the passion, and the romance in a relationship. if you find out that you still care for the person, then there is no doubt that it's love that you feel
  • A person can be in love with someone forever till the end of time, but if that person doesnt tell or show his/her feelings of love, it will be just another person living in a dream, lost of true lovewe can never be certain of our relationships because not all of them are both to last our lifetime. We have to constantly nurture it so it can grow and we can grow old with it
  • The greatest mistake we'll make in a relationship is when we look at somebody else other than our partner to satisfy our emtotional and physical needs, The second mistake is when we consciously allow ourselves to be the object of these emotional and physical desires
  • In the midst of despair, pain, and sorrow, someone comes in our life and gives us strength to believe in life again. The love they give us and faith that helps us believe in ourselves again that we can make our dreams come true
  • Love isn't always an easy road to pass through. if you find yourself confused about your path, take a minute and let love help you find your way
  • Love can be the best thing that will ever happen to you. More often than not, your lover is also your best friend, one who will stand by you through thick and thin

Friday, July 18, 2008

If You Love Someone...

If you love someone because you think that he or she is really gorgeous ...
then it's not love .. it's ~ Infatuation ~......

If you love someone because you think that you shouldn't leave him because others think that you shouldn't ... then it's not love.. it's ~ compromise ~.......

If you love someone because you think that you cannot live with out his touch ....
then it's not love .. it's ~lust~......

If you love someone because you have been kissed by him ...
then it's not love.. it's ~ inferiority complex~.... ..

If you love someone because you cannot leave him thinking that it would hurt his feelings ..
then it's not love .. it's ~charity~... .

If you love someone because you share every thing with him ...
then it's not love... it's ~friendship~ ...

but if you feel the pa in of the other person more than him even when he is stable and you cry for him ... that's ~LOVE~ =

if you get attracted to other people but stay with him without any regrets...
that's ~LOVE~

If you let him go knowing that he has to go but he doesn't want to ...
that's ~LOVE~

Best Moments In Life

  • Falling in love.
  • Laughing till your stomach hurts.
  • Enjoying a ride down the country side.
  • Listening to your favorite song on the radio.
  • Going to sleep listening to the rain pouring outside.
  • Getting out of the shower and wrapping yourself with a warm, fuzzy towel.
  • Passing your final exams with good grades.
  • Being a part of an interesting conversation
  • Finding some money in some old pants.
  • Laughing at yourself.
  • Sharing a wonderful dinner with all your friends.
  • Laughing without a reason.
  • "Accidentally" hearing someone say somthing good about you.
  • Watching the sunset.
  • Listening to a song that reminds you of an important person in your life.
  • Receiving or giving your first kiss.
  • Feeling this buzz in your body when seeing this "special" someone.
  • Having a great time with your friends.
  • Seeing the one you love happy.
  • Wearing the shirt of a person you love and smelling his/her perfume.
  • Visiting an old friend of yours and remembering great memories.
  • Hearing someone telling you "I LOVE YOU"

"True friends come in the good times when we tell them to, and come in the bad times.....without calling."

*aLL AbOuT LoVe*

To love... Anyone who has gone through the agony of losing someone she loves so much will still wish against all odds to have that love back again. But, sometimes a love lost is a love gone forever. No amount of hope can bring to life a relationship that just died a natural death. Set yourself free. Let your heart spread its wings and fly. Remember, it may rain for 40 days and 40 nights, but still will not rain forever. One day the pouring will stop and there will be plenty of branches where you can find rest. One of these is where you will build your nest and start over again. It's never too late. Remember, you may find love and lose it but, "WHEN LOVE DIES, YOU NEVER HAVE TO DIE WITH IT". Remember that you cannot be a redeemer all your life. The best way to weigh a relationship is out in the test of fire. You cannot be a sooner of your mistake forever. Remember, we all fail and make wrong decisions but our blunders are meant not to bury us deep in misery but to teach us the valued
lessons of life.

Loving is always a learning process. With love, we learn how to care and sacrifice. We learn to share and reach out. We learn to be unselfish and give more than we can. And when everything doesn't end well, we learn how it fells fall, we strive to get back on our feet and move on. This is where we learn that "Life doesn't end where our heartaches begin".THERE IS NO FUTURE IN A RELATIONSHIP OF LIES AND SELFISHNESS. It's true, there's life in love. But, there can still be life even after losing love if you leave the past behind and let your heart heal and give you the chance to find yourself again. The success of a relationship lies not only in the beauty of its beginning but in its consistency. Make a choice not on impulse but a decision based on a healthy balance of mind and heart.

Let us always remember that "HAPPINESS IS NOT A MATTER OF DESTINY BUT A MATTER OF CHOICE". There comes a time in our lives when we chance upon someone so nice and beautiful and we just find ourselves getting so intensely attracted to that person. This feeling soon becomes part of our everyday lives and eventually consumes our thoughts and actions. The sad part of its when we begin to realize that this person feels nothing more for us than friendship. We start our desperate attempt to get noticed and be closer but in the end our efforts are still unrewarded and we end up being sorry for ourselves.

"YOU DON'T HAVE TO FORGET SOMEONE YOU LOVE. WHAT YOU NEED TO LEARN IS HOW TO ACCEPT THE VERDICT OF REALITY WITHOUT BEING BITTER OR SORRY FOR YOURSELF. YOU WOULD BETTER OFF GIVING THAT DEDICATION AND LOVE TO SOMEONE MORE DESERVING". Don't let your heart run your life, be sensible and let your mind speak for itself. Listen not only to your feelings but to reason as well. Always remember that if you lose someone today, it means that someone better is coming tomorrow.

"IF YOU LOSE LOVE, THAT DOESN'T MEAN THAT YOU HAVE FAILED IN LOVE. CRY IF YOU HAVE TO, BUT MAKE SURE THAT TEAR WASHES AWAY THE HURT AND THE BITTERNESS THAT THE PAST LEFT YOU WITH. LET GO OF YESTERDAY AND LOVE WILL FIND ITS WAY BACK TO YOU
". And when it does, pray that it may be the love that will stay and last a lifetime.

A woman on the rebound could easily fall for sweeping emotions and be made to falsely believe that she finally stumbled upon the right man when what she just found is only someone to cover up for the love she lost. A man who makes promises with words and not with actions may never live up to fulfill them.

"IT'S TRUE THAT LOVE CAN WAIT FOREVER BUT IT IS CRAZY TO STUBBORNLY HOPE FOR SOMEONE WHO DOESN'T EVEN CARE OR UNDERSTAND HOW WE FEEL". Loving someone is never a sin. It is what people do out of love that sometimes makes it all wrong. The selfish desire to want that person is what makes it a sin. Don't think only of your feelings
for real love doesn't have a place for selfish people. When there is love, there is always sacrifice. When we love someone, we NEVER easily GIVE UP on that person. Even if we get hurt badly we always try to find a way to ease the pain and learn to understand and forgive. Loving too much doesn't hurt. It is when we expect this love to be reciprocated that we begin to seek approval and acceptance of the things we have done and when we are taken for granted and rejected, we curse the very same love that we once freely and happily offered.

"DON'T WASTE YOUR TIME WAITING FOR SOMEONE WHO NEVER REALLY CARED ABOUT HOW YOU WOULD HAVE FELT. OPEN YOUR HEART AGAIN AND GIVE YOURSELF THE CHANCE TO FIND THE MAN WHO WOULD MAKE LOVING WORTH THE PAIN AND THE SACRIFICE. Just like anything else, our love grows weak and extent. Beyond that, it withers without any hope of recovery and soon dies".

God wakes us up in the midst of a storm to teach us a lesson. He takes away people we love, so we can learn to value love itself. He makes us cry so hard so we can see clearly when we open our eyes. He makes us bitter so we can realize that there is no genuine happiness if we think only of our needs and not of others. Relationships built on jealousy and selfishness is doomed from the very beginning. The hardest part of losing love is letting go and moving on. Most of us cry endlessly over things that could have been but never will be."God allows us toexperience pain to make us stronger and betterpersons. He will see us through the most trying anddifficult times in our lives and only if we put our trust in Him we can learn to find joy in our tears and happiness in our sorrows".

In many failed relationships, separation comes as the inevitable choice but moving on always proves to be twice as difficult as letting go. Sometimes, the end of a relationship is imposed on us, but our choice to hold on is always beyond the control of circumstances.

Letting go is a decision that can never be dictated on us. It is a resolve we make ourselves. Acceptance is the key to a new beginning and time isthe healer of all wounds. Even if the storm casts its fearful shadow, there will always be light after our darkness and lonely moments. There is always a hope for those who believe. There is always a chance for those who try.

"Losing someone we may not be a loss at all but a blessing because someone even more is yet to come". There is nothing wrong in expressing our feelings to someone we love, but "we must always be sensitive to the signals that tell us when to rationalize and be sensible." There comes a time in our lives when we would fall for someone who wouldn't be as interested as we are because his attention is focused on someone else. There are many times when we love but don't get loved in return. There are times when the sign ahead says stop but we still stubbornly head on. We would say our love is unconditional, but if it really is, then we should never feel bad. But why do we get frustrated when love turns sour? Because we still subconsciously seek acceptance and assurance from the people we care about.

Being in love can be the most wonderful thing we could experience but if the feeling begins to consume our whole beings, then we have to stop and let our minds and not our hearts dictate our actions. Only when we learn to accept our fate and understand the meaning of our failures we can truly go on with life without having to look back and cry over the things that could have been but will never be......

Lust or Love

A decision everyone must make for them selves.Everyone wants to be loved, but what happens when sexual urges over come the want or better yet the need to be loved? I guess it all depends on what you want or what you have. I honestly don¢t think true love can be beaten by any physical or mental form of lust.

Lust is but only a quick fix for love. Lust is desire, sex, passion, and no emotional connection. Love is so much more, love is knowing your partner, their moods, the little things that they do and the small things that make them happy.

Lust is just for fun. Now list cannot be in a true love relationship in my opinion. To me anything that has to do with list in a true love relationship turns into passion or romance, I don¢t believe you would call it lust, hence forth because there is meaning and compassion in it when its in this state and form.

12 bEsT tHiNgS aBoUt bEiNg SiNgLe



1. You can make last-minute plans with your friends and stay out all night if you want.
2. You can lie on both sides of your bed and have all the covers to yourself.
3. You can flirt with the opposite sex without someone saying, " Who are you looking at? "
4. You can make your own decisions.
5. You don't have to remember your significant other's birthday or anniversary.
6. You can make a list of things you always wanted to do...and actually do them.
7. You can be moody without anyone trying to find out if something's wrong! If I don't want to talk - I just won't!
8. You can go out and not having to say where you've been or what you've been doing and what time should you be back.
9. You have control over what you spend and where you spend it.
10. You can spend all night on the phone without having to justify it.
11. There's plenty of space in the wardrobe.
12. You can do a smelly fart without being told it's 'unladylike'.

Monday, July 14, 2008

How to Tell If She Likes You

  • She gazes in your eyes with deep interest and her pupils are dilated.
  • Her skin tone becomes red while being around you.
  • She raises or lowers the volume of her voice to match yours.
  • She rubs her chin or touches her cheek. This indicates that she's thinking about you and her relating in some way.
  • She winks at you while talking to you or winks at you from a distance.
  • She exposes the palms of her hand facing you.She starts sitting straight up and her muscles appear to be firm.
  • Biting of the lips or showing of the tongue, licking her lips or touching of her front teeth.
  • She starts sitting straight up and her muscles appear to be firm.
  • She puts her fingernail between her teeth.
  • She laughs in unison with you.
  • She touches your arm, shoulder, thigh, or hand while talking to you.
  • Plays with her jewelry, especially with stroking and pulling motions.
  • She twirls her hair around her fingers while she is looking at you.
  • Eyebrows raised and then lowered, then a smile usually indicates interest in you.
  • While talking to you, she rests an elbow in the palm of one hand, while holding out her other hand, palm up.
  • In a crowd she speaks only to you and focuses all of her undivided attention on you.
  • While talking to you, she blinks more than usual, fluttering her eyelashes.
  • Big smiles with upper and lower teeth showing with a relaxed face.
  • She speeds up or slows down her speaking to match yours.
  • She rubs her wrists up and down.



Sunday, July 13, 2008

hoW CaN i FaLL InLoVe WiTh WoRds OnLy

How can I fall in love with only words?
Words and pictures, grainy and compressed?
A jaypeg love is truly for the birds.
You'd have to wonder whether I'm repressed.
But love it is, through all the bits and bytes,
For someone who's like no one else I've met:
Tender, charming, bright, queen of my nights,
All I've ever dreamed of, on the Net.
And though she's living in a distant place,
I love her as I've loved no one before.
Will I ever get to touch her face,
Hold her in my arms and, perhaps, more?
Ay, me! No matter what, I'm still in love.
Through modems must our e-mailed passions move!

Love Notes: The Perfect Presentation


Ideas on how to create unique love letters and notes along with special ways to present them to your love.

*No ordinary paper*
  • Antiqued paper can be made by presoaking your letter paper in coffee.
  • Scented paper made with your perfume, cologne, or fruity sprays.
  • On hearts, big ones on a giant card or little ones on a mobile or made to look like conversation candies.
  • Post-Its are quick and easy priceless little reminders.
  • Paper roses, cut out paper petals, write sweet nothings on them and them push a pipe cleaner through the middle as a stem and arrange the petals.
  • Tissue paper love notes are time consuming, but sweet surprises. A couple of words written on the corner of tissues and then folded back into the box.
  • Use candy to make sweet and silly poetry. Replace words like "Starburst," "Sugar Daddy," and "Whatchamacalit" in your poem with the actual candies.
  • Dry erase markers work great on any glassy surface for drawings and notes. On the bedding, if you dare, surprise your lover with love notes on the giant canvas of your bed.
*Multi-Media*
  • Text messaging is a virtually effortless way to bring a smile to your love's face anytime, anywhere.
  • PowerPoint is a brilliant way to express your love. Set up a picture slide show and add your voice, animation, and love notes to sweep them off their feet.
  • Writable media allows you to record yourself reading your love letter over music, video, or pictures.
  • Email your love and while thinking ahead, print and save some of your favorite emails to build another sentimental gift!
  • Computer Love -- Set your love's computer to have a personalized screen saver or customized desktop.
*Package your letter*
  • Memory boxes can hold your letters, notes, and be used to collect memorabilia of your moments together.
  • Scrapbook making allows you to write love notes as captions to pictures, anecdotes to memorabilia, and use words as décor to your pages.
  • Message in a bottle -- Roll your letter up like a scroll and put it in a jar with a cork. You could also add in bits of confetti or glitter, or themed items like sand and shells.
  • Balloons can also hold rolled up messages and any other small items you can fit through the opening before inflation.
*Surprise Deliveries*
  • In their lunch is a great place to hide a love note, word of encouragement, or even apology!
  • On the pillow is the perfect place to say "good morning," "I love you," or "you light up my life."
  • In their breakfast is a great way to start the day. Surprise them with a love note in their box of cereal or pasted to the side of the orange juice.
  • On the mirror, you can write with dry erase markers or stick a note to let your love know you are thinking of them.
  • Stuck anywhere, love notes are great on the refrigerator, in his shoe, in her make-up case, anywhere and everywhere.
  • In the bath, you can hide a message in a bottle, personalized soaps, or for the child in them, notes on rubber duckies or boats.
  • On their car, you can leave love letters and notes on paper, written with soap or dry erase markers, or fill their car with love note balloons.
  • Glow-in-the-dark pens or chalks can be used on the mirror, bedding, or ceiling if you dare, so that when your love drifts to sleep, you will be on their mind.